The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity- Esther Perel

The State of Affairs by Esther Perel

The State of Affairs is Esther Perel’s bold, compassionate, and deeply insightful exploration of infidelity—why it happens, what it means, and how couples can heal or rebuild trust after betrayal. Through real stories and sharp psychological insight, Perel reframes affairs not just as endings, but as complex turning points that reveal our deepest desires and expectations. Buy in Kenya with fast delivery.

What You’ll Learn 

• Why people cheat—even in happy relationships

• How cultural expectations around marriage shape our reactions to betrayal

• The emotional impact of an affair and why it hurts so deeply

• Whether an affair can be healed from—or even transform—a relationship

• A modern, nuanced framework for understanding love, lust, and commitment

Who Should Read the book

Individuals and couples navigating infidelity, therapists, or anyone curious about modern relationships. Ideal for readers looking for clarity, healing, or a deeper understanding of desire and human connection.

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